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SELECTING A
MATE
If you and your partner are a good
match, it can be easy to have a
long-term fulfilling, relationship. If
you are a bad match it can be
impossible.
In order to
have a long-term, fulfilling marital
relationship you must be considerate,
respectful and true to your spouse and
to yourself.
BASIC CONSIDERATIONS
Deciding on whom and
when to marry and committing yourself to a
primary relationship are significant life
decisions with long-term consequences, and
should not be taken lightly or made quickly
or without sufficient data and careful
consideration. You should not be guided by
your feelings and emotions in making these
decisions because they are too misleading
and narrowly focused. By all means consider
your feelings, but be guided by your
judgment.
In order to have a
long-term, fulfilling marital relationship
you must be considerate, respectful and true
to your spouse and to yourself. Most people
understand that how they treat their partner
is important, but do not realize that how
they treat themselves is equally important.
It might be even more important.
Be direct, honest and
respectful to the other person and yourself.
If you don’t treat your partner right, you
will be paving a path that leads to problems
and resentment. Don’t let bother, upset,
disappointment and little problems fester
and turn into resentment or depression in
you. Be respectful of yourself and let your
partner know what is important to you. If
you avoid conflict you cannot have a
long-term, fulfilling relationship.
