Men are not usually the most romantic creatures. Either it takes a lot of prompting and training for them to become romantic or somehow they were blessed and decided to become romantic on their own. Usually it involves a lot of prompting on your part to make him realize that you need some romance or you set the scene yourself.
 

One way to get him to take notice is to romance yourself. You deserve it and if he isn’t going to do for you, you can do it for yourself. Start out by getting yourself into shape both physically and mentally, change what you can and want to change and learn to accept the things that can not be changed.

You have to consciously decide you want to be a sexy woman deserving of love and romance. Get comfortable with your naked body and decide that you want to have a great sex life. Get a makeover; change your hairstyle and even your hair color. Put on beauty colors Go for a day at the spa. Pamper yourself.
 

Get moving, exercise for a strong healthy and sexy body. Take dance classes that really get you moving like a Latin or salsa class or a belly dancing class, something with moves you can use in the bedroom. Some places even offer strip tease classes. You can learn how to be like a stripper that enchants and captivates men. Then go shopping and buy some new stylish and sexy clothing, especially sexy underwear and lingerie.

You should start to feel the changes within yourself. You should be becoming more confident and feeling sexy. He should start to notice the changes in you too. Maybe he’ll wonder what’s going on. Good, make him wonder. Buy yourself flowers send yourself gifts. Let him ponder for awhile if someone else sent them to you. Set the scene for romance with candles, wine and a special dinner for two. Hopefully by now he’s taking the hint and sending some of his own style of romance your way.

If he’s still not catching on don’t give up yet. Make the first move with him. Most men love nothing more than having their woman desire them and come after them. Sometimes the hunter really enjoys becoming the hunted. This will surely make him take notice. Be a little aggressive with him. Take charge. Know your body and what turns you on and gets you off. Use him to get you off. He’ll be amazed at the new you and you’ll have him eating out of your hand. After a couple wild episodes like that he should be whisking you off on a romantic vacation to Paris or at least a fun night for two on the town.

Sometimes it’s not even the man that needs prompting with the romance, it’s us. We get bogged down with the kids, home and/or work and forget that we are sexual creatures with needs. Our sexuality gets placed on the backburner after everything else that needs to be taken care of. By learning to romance yourself and put your needs and desires at the top of the list, romance and passion from your partner are sure to follow.

© Roxanne Rhoads
         

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