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Every
person has their own romantic fantasies. Each
fantasy has its own unique feeling, tone, and
theme.
Some people have simple fantasies, yet others
elaborate their romantic dreams with many
sophisticated details. There is one thing in
common with all romantic fantasies, however. It
is desiring something that you don't already
have in your life and that can only come true
with a romantic partner.
Fantasies provide peace of mind and escape from
the real world, and romantic fantasies in
particular serve as a vehicle to a more
satisfying sex life. Fantasies put people in
touch with their sensuality, while also allowing
them to become more comfortable with themselves
and their relationships.
Women tend
to be more sensual and romantic, relying on soft
lighting, scented candles and slow music to set
the mood. When most women fantasize about making
love, it is often with a focus on their current
partner (though sometimes someone unattainable,
famous, etc. may creep into the mind's eye.)
Location and setting play important roles as
well, and the emotional connection is critical
in most cases.
For some women, the ultimate fantasy is just
spending time with the one they love. As one
woman revealed, "I have the occasional naughty
fantasies, but more than anything, I think about
being curled up in his arms."
Sharing Your Fantasy
Very often, both partners in a relationship have
fantasies they would like to share with their
partners, but they don't reveal them. Fantasies
evoke strong emotions and revealing them can
make you vulnerable. Therefore, fantasies are
usually kept private. To present your secret
thoughts to someone can take courage.
It is easy and comfortable to assume that
revealing your fantasies will not be appreciated
by your partner. Although no one can read
another person's mind, most people think their
partner would not want to live out a fantasy
with them.
Tell Your Partner "What" and the "WAY"
you way....
How to tell your partner
about your romantic fantasies?
All you have to do is be clear about what you
want and then tell your partner. Yes, this may
sound easier to do than it is, but what do you
have to lose? If you have someone who loves you,
that person may be more eager to make you happy
than you think.
Try This:
Write your fantasy down in one sentence. Have
your partner write his or her fantasy down as
well.
Now that you have written it down, you should be
clear about what you want.
The next step is to share the fantasy with your
partner. Go ahead, you will be surprised who
easily fantasies can become reality!
Remember, your sensual and romantic thoughts can
become reality if you share them with your love.
Enjoy!
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Romance |