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8. Best position for
hitting the G-spot
Most experts say that G-spot stimulation
works best when you do it by hand, since it
allows for more subtle manipulation. But that
means less fun for you. To get at her G-spot
during intercourse, enter her doggy-style from
the rear. "It's the best angle for hitting the
G-spot," says Cathy Winks, author of The Good
Vibrations Guide to the G-spot. Keep your hands
on her hips and pull her towards you each time
you thrust forward.
9. Get down and give me
the sexual push up
There's a reason girls swoon when they see a
six pack. They know a man with strong abs is
going to be great in the sack. Sexual push-ups
are a great way to flex your abs for her: Assume
the standard push-up position you'd use if you
were working out. Then have your partner slide
underneath you. This variation on the man-on-top
position works extremely well for guys with flat
stomachs, says sex expert Michael Perry, Ph.D.
"You should have your arms down along her sides,
and thrust with your shoulders as well as your
abdominals," he says.
10. Try the 'X'
position
Women like a guy with strong arms. Emphasize
yours by using the "X" position. Sit facing your
partner, legs apart. As you enter her, have her
straddle your hips with her legs. Both you and
your partner should then reach backward with
your arms, placing them about shoulder width
apart. Keep your arms straight, and lean back
onto them, so that you arch your back and
slightly raise your pelvis (together, your
bodies will form the shape of an X). Once you're
in position, lean back on your arms and rock
your pelvis to create a strong, thrusting
motion.
11. A trick for lasting
longer
If you're worried about getting off too
early, try become more aware of your
pre-orgasmic sensations. Most men only recognize
that last, no-turning-back feeling, that occurs
just before ejaculation, says David Copeland, of
the How to Succeed with Women website. By then
it's too late to do anything about it. Try to
become familiar with the two or three more
subtle sensations that precede that one, so that
you can slow down at the right time.
12. Kissing keeps her going
You're close, really close, but you're
forgetting what got you here in the first place.
"Women get their greatest erotic pleasure from
frequent, passionate kissing," says Britton. "If
you get the sense that she's starting to lose
interest, kissing is always the best way to
bring her back into it." Just remember that
passionate kissing doesn't always mean
frantically swabbing out her tonsils. Try to mix
up your tongue play with the occasional
closed-mouth kiss on her nose, eyes, and
forehead.
13. Another good trick for lasting longer
To her, 14 minutes feels like "been there,
done that." Time to be the man of the hour. Rock
and roll. Before you get too close to the
14-minute mark, penetrate her as deeply as you
can and then stop thrusting. Now press your
pelvic bone against hers and start shifting up
and down in a kind of rocking motion. "It won't
be as stimulating for you, so you'll last
longer, and it may be more stimulating for her,"
says Jed Kaminetsky, M.D., a professor of
urology at New York University.
14. Reward her bravery
When she initiates the action, make an extra
effort to please her sexually and to let her
know how much you approve. Tell her you loved
her initiation. Sometimes women wonder if you're
going to perceive initiation as negative or if
it might make you uncomfortable.
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