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Have Fun!
1. Get naked! Pour peppermint schnapps in
her belly button. Sip it. Then kiss her breasts
and blow on the spots you kissed. The peppermint
schnapps and air will cause a cool sensation and
heighten arousal, says Ava Cadell, Ph.D., a Los
Angeles sex therapist.
2. During oral sex,
don't head straight for her clitoris. Try the
Tahitian Method instead. Lie perpendicular to
her and move your tongue back and forth over the
hood of her clitoris.
3. With you still inside her, ask your
gal to stretch her legs and squeeze her PC
muscles. This contracts the vagina, makes her
more orgasmic, and gives you a more taut
feeling.
4. Give her a different perspective on
the action--men aren't the only ones aroused
visually. Try putting a full-length mirror at
the foot of the bed.
5. Think of your penis as one of many
tools in your sexual survival kit -- not your
only weapon. And remember to use it outside her
vagina occasionally. Focus on shallow thrusts.
In the missionary position, barely penetrate her
vagina. Let your penis rest just inside her.
Work it Out!
1. Conditioning your shoulders, triceps, and
chest will make it easier to support your body
weight for longer periods of time, allowing you
to hold certain positions as long as you need to
-- or as long as she needs you to.
2. Impressive sex mostly relies on having
muscular stamina and rhythm. Using endurance
exercises that mimic the motions involved in sex
can prevent weaker muscles from quitting too
soon.
3. Don't know how to break the ice with
that gym babe? Ask her to show you how to do a
particular exercise or operate a certain
machine. She'll be flattered.
4. Swim with your wife or girlfriend.
Bodies feel good in the water. You're semi
clothed and you're in public, so it only goes so
far, but you can play under the surface, which
adds tension.
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