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Talk It Up!
1. Some Saturday afternoon when you're
both feeling frisky, pour some wine and divide
10 3x5 cards between you and your mate. Each of
you writes down five sexual fantasies while the
wine loosens your inhibitions.
2. Ask for
directions. As you now know, the clitoris has
two sides, so ask, "Do you like it on the left
or the right?"
3. Lie on a blanket in a park, with
people all around, and whisper your fantasies to
one another, sparing no detail. You'll create
sexual tension, but there's safety because
there's no possibility of sex then and there.
4. Try the no-move move. When you start
foreplay, tell her you're not going to move on
to another action until she tells you what to do
next. It's a way to encourage her to open up and
direct you to what she really wants.
5. Visit the erotica section of the
bookstore. Make some purchases, then read them
to each other. You'll discover new interests
that, amazingly, never came up when you were
buying garden supplies.
Sex Style:
1. Edit your wallet -- now! On a first date,
consider deploying a thin billfold from inside
your jacket pocket. That way you won't have to
grapple your butt to pry a ratty, overstuffed
wallet out of your pocket.
2. Before you buy a belt, flex it and
assess the size of the wrinkles in the leather.
If it's the good goods, the wrinkles will be
fine creases, like the skin folds at your wrist
when you bend your hand back. If they're wider,
it's a poor-quality piece.
3. Resist the temptation to think you're
the one who can pull off those brown leather
sandals (a.k.a. "mandals"); a pair of Adidas
sports sandals or just the classic Reef
flip-flops are infinitely preferable.
4. Don't make the rookie mistake of
putting cologne on your face. Scent rises, so it
should go on your chest, on the back of your
neck, behind your ears, and on the inner sides
of your arms (and, if you're hopeful, your
legs).
5. Check the angle. Of your sideburns,
that is -- against your specs or sunglasses. You
want the bottom of your sideburns trimmed so
they're parallel to each earpiece. Gauge the
length by cutting them so they're even with your
eyes, your cheekbones, or the underside of your
nose.
Learn Denial:
1. "Few guys know how much a woman loves to
be stroked with her bra and panties still on, so
don't rush to get her naked," says Nicole Beland,
Men's Health's Girl Next Door.
2. Spend some time on the back of her
neck. It's a brave new world of nerve endings,
so gentle caressing and kissing are all that's
needed.
3. Use anticipation as an aphrodisiac.
Instead of tearing her clothes off, take your
time. Tell her what you want to do with each
section of exposed skin.
4. Women love anticipation, to be
caressed outside of our clothes, to be kissed on
their mouths, necks, everywhere. Women need to
be reminded by men like you that
high-school-style groping and panting make the
sex later 10 times sexier.
5. You've got the obvious kiss spots
covered. Now concentrate your efforts elsewhere
-- on her elbows, knees, shoulders, ankles,
neck, and hip joints.
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