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LEARN TO SENSE HER
ONCOMING ORGASM
Ease into oral sex -- don't just attack.
First kiss her inner thighs and her inner and
outer lips, then work your way inside using
firm, broad strokes with your tongue. Watch her
hips for a clue to the rhythm she likes. Listen
to her gasps and moans as you experiment with
different techniques. And watch for signs she's
close to climaxing, such as a subtle deepening
in the color of her labia caused by increased
bloodflow. Or rest a hand on her stomach and
feel for the muscular contractions that
immediately precede her orgasm.
FOLLOW HER LEAD
Once you reach your point of no return,
you'll climax even if you're interrupted by a
tuba-playing, thong-clad Bea Arthur. But your
lady could hit the "off" switch if you stop or
change moves midway to orgasm. We love it when
you try new things, and it's important to vary
your technique, but once you've found a winner,
stick with it until she crosses the finish line.
LET HER FINISH FIRST
Stalking the elusive tandem orgasm is an
admirable goal, but many women -- especially
those with sensitive clitorises -- respond
better to a "ladies-first" strategy. If you rub
the clitoris for a long time -- during
thrusting, for example -- it can become too sore
or desensitized to respond to manual or oral
stimulation later. So satisfy her before
intercourse. Bonus: A woman's orgasm threshold
drops after her first one, so it's often easier
to bring her to climax through penetration after
she's already had one. How does that sound for
an encore?
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